I am definitely not the only person on this planet to feel that 2019 has been a taxing year, filled with growing pains that, in hindsight, I am grateful for. Here are my takeaways from this year:
I will keep adding to this, until the year ends. What were your takeaways from 2019? I'd love to know. Let's talk!
- Happiness is my ultimate goal and I am responsible for it.
- If I want it, I can create it- it’s as simple as that.
- I don’t learn from achieving a goal, I learn from the process involved in achieving that goal i.e. it’s the process that matters
- I am a self-aware and confident individual. I am well aware of my strengths and I am mindful of my weaknesses. My weaknesses are a reminder that I am not perfect. And that I am a perpetual work in progress.
Self-awareness makes me realize that neither am I better than anyone, nor is anyone better than me. - I am committed to learning and building my mind. My curiosity is my strength.
- I know what I want and I am consistently working towards it. However, at the same time, I give into the uncertainty as it is a part of life. When I give into the uncertainty, I give in because I understand that my future/the sum of my present, is out of my control. That said, what I have is the present moment. This brings me back to point number 4. I should focus on the process (which is in the present) and not on the result (which is in the future and which is out of my control).
- Procrastination is my worst enemy even though I find myself here quite often. Consistency is my best friend. What I am consistent with will grow, what I am not consistent with, in simple words, will stagnate.
- Picking up a spiritual practice was the best thing that I did in 2019. First and foremost, it made me value myself. In addition to this, it gave me perspective, it gave me understanding and it gave me self-awareness. It made me realize that my external environment is a reflection of my internal environment. I will attract whatever and however I feel and am on the inside. This thought pushed me to commit myself to become better, if not the best, personally and professionally.
- I realized that eternal friendships are built on mutual effort. Those who reciprocate should be cherished. Those who don’t reciprocate should be politely kept out of my life. I devote my time to those who value it and vice versa.
- Last but not the least, patience is key, patience is a virtue. I understood that everything takes its own sweet time and impatience will not make its entrance into my life quicker. “The process, Aishwarya! Focus”.
I will keep adding to this, until the year ends. What were your takeaways from 2019? I'd love to know. Let's talk!